Past Life Regression can help in solving relationship issues

There is a very good for relationship issues to be arising out of Past Lives. Relationships, especially close ones are often with our soulmates or members of our soul group / family and since we have already spent significant lifetimes with them, there is reason why they behave a certain way or the respective relationship is at the stage that it is. Usually relationship issues come from karmic debts created over a series of lives and Past Life Regression helps identify the patterns and resolve them as well.

Many of us slightly misinterpret the karma theory at times, especially with regards to relationships. Usually one will hear “sow shall we reap” as in if one is suffering now, it’s a punishment they are getting as a result of their bad karmas but there is a slight modification I would like to make here, as per my understanding of this theory. For example, there is a person who is physically handicapped in a way that he is totally and utterly dependent on his family members for survival. Whenever someone would look at them, many would comment they have this kind of a life because it’s a result of some bad karma they did in their past lives. I actually came across a client like this and when he was regressed, it was found that he was quite an evolved soul and the reason he chose to be in that state in the current life was to help his family members to experience to care for someone who is completely dependent on them for life. It was a lesson of compassion that his parents and siblings were seeking on a higher level and he was here only to help them get the best challenge and to learn it well. This is a perfect example to show that it’s never about punishment. 

We choose our bodies and our parents before we incarnate and this has been proven many times with research done by Dr. Michael Newton during spiritual regression. We build an entire plan for our next earth life depending on the lesson that we are seeking to learn. We have the help and guidance of our spirit guides and our soul family while doing so. We know our past lives and our failures and sometimes, just like some people choose motor racing or boxing as their career, knowing it’s not a smooth ride, similarly, some evolved souls choose to challenge themselves by choosing difficult lives and difficult life situations. The incentive is an accelerated Soul Evolution. All of us ultimately want to get rid of this cycle of reincarnation and are drawn to the central source of energy which we refer to as God. Divinity pulls us towards itself at the subconscious level and hence we do everything we can to get there as soon as possible.

At the soul level, there is no hatred, no guilt, no distrust. There is only love. We are surrounded by our soulmates, our soul families and our guides. We choose who will meet us at which milestone in our life and usually every person we meet in our life have a certain role to play in it. It’s not a coincidence that you meet your soulmate after you are married and have kids. The lesson is such that it demanded a situation or that challenge. The lesson could be either way. It could be to help you break free from your marriage and the soulmate could be the one offering you the incentive or the lesson could be to understand responsibility and commitment in marriage and he could be there only to give you temptation and make it a tougher lesson to learn.

In today’s world, almost everyone is facing relationship issues, with partners, with parents, with friends, with siblings or sometimes with children. Sometimes the emotions that we feel towards some people or the way certain people behave with us is a result of the karmic debt we have with them from our past. For example, if you were a victim of abuse through your hubby is one life, both of you could mutually agree at the soul level to play opposite roles in this current life in order for both of you to learn from the other side of the coin. If using free will, someone did something cruel to you in a last life, it is very probably that they will meet you in the current life and do the opposite to makeup and yet because you are holding that negativity or hatred or anger from that life, you will still reflect it in you and the current relationship will go sour. This is where Past Life Regression Therapy is very helpful.

Through Past Life Regression Therapy, it’s possible to firstly find out your relationship with your closed ones in your past, specially with the ones you feel connected with in the past and then it’s possible to resolve your past with them and transform the memories. Many times, it will tell us the reason why a particular relationship is the way that it is and also help in resolving it.

For more details about Past Life Regression Therapy, visit my website at www.pastlifeconnection.com or write to me at minal@pastlifeconnection.com

my hypnotherapy expedition

I finally did my Hypnotherapy course at the Past Life Regression Academy, Singapore and I feel absolutely great about it. It's not that I was the best or I didn't keep wondering after looking at the all so accomplished and wonderful people I met there that somehow I could have better utilized the 32 years of my life on this planet, yet it was the most enjoyable and enlightening experience in a long time.

I admit I was a little skeptical when I went in for the course. I didn't know what to expect and Hypnotherapy sounded like some boring science that I was advised to study just so that I can do my past life regression studies...sort of felt like drink your milk otherwise no breakfast today...but...I was pleasantly surprised.

As each day passed, my curiosity for what comes next and my excitement at what was going on kept getting higher. We were 10 people which included 2 people who flew from Australia...Steve and Yanka where Steve has been into healing and body works for over 2 decades now and talking to him for 5 mins or merely being next to him can make one feel the aura, the stream of positive energy flowing through the body. Yanka is one of the most beautiful and warm persons I have met...she is an absolutely amazing woman and Steve and her share this connection that is so evident...her happiness seems to be a reward for the lessons well learnt. Alison and Shirley were two very very sweet Singaporean friends I made, both working as Recruitment Consultants and being young lovely mothers, they showered the cosy, nice feeling to everyone around them. Sandra is an absolute darling. She seemed like the one who has seen life and yet with all that she has seen, her positivity and belief in the goodness of life only seemed to increase. Sudha is the softest, politest and nicest person I have met who somehow manages to say all the right things at the right time. Max...oh how could I forget him...Max is the simplest, no fuss person I have seen...his simplicity in taking decisions and just going with the flow sort of made me wonder so many times that I have a knack for making my life tough. Max and Sudha specially came over from Malaysia to attend the course. Reena...oh she was the youngest and the bubbly one in our gang...sweet and smart at the same time...the best t-shirts with amazing stuff written on them. Louise...she is one inspiring woman. Initially, I didn't think I would get along wit her since she looked as though she didn't like much mingling but yesterday when she and I had a session together...I realized she is kind and brave...from what her life tells me and I admire those qualities in her. It was such an amazing group of people that every single one had an air about them which made them unique and yet we all got so connected instantly that yesterday when we hugged each other to say goodbye...it sort of seemed very sad.



"You do what you do best and the universe will take care of the rest" is something that really moved and inspired me from one of Reena's t-shirts. It makes a lot of sense I thought.

Now silly of me that I wrote so much about all the students but missed the most amazing teacher. I am sure you must be wondering who was the one who lead us through this journey. Well Toni as we call her...an awesome woman I must say. One doesn't come to know her potential all at once but slowly and slowly when she revealed herself and her true abilities...I sort of kept thinking...how can she know so much and be so wise all the time :). As Steve rightly mentioned, its great to have a teacher who can hold your hand and take you through the journey of self discovery...because if she would only lead, we could still get lost. I am so looking fwd to our Past Life Regression training since I can only imagine of Toni is so good, Andy (Andy Tomlinson - Author of "Exploring the Eternal Soul" and "Healing the Eternal Soul") would be ever better.

Now coming to what I learnt. I learnt all about how to make people loose weight(specially if they have a strong want yet can't get to do it somehow...even the lazy ones :), to stop smoking, to make one stress free, confidence building / ego boost as they would call it and a lot of other amazing areas where hypnotherapy has a huge success rate. So, yes...I am officially capable of helping people in all of the above and it feels great!

I am so looking fwd to my first hypnotherapy session today :)

our souls in the spirit world

This whole thing is getting very interesting. I have moved from Brian Weiss now to reading Michael Newton, who has been researching in this area since about 30 years now and some of his work and books are really interesting. I am currently reading 'Journey of Souls", which also has a sequel that I will read next to this. Its a very amazing book since its written in the form of case studies with pateints and it covers a completly new and different side of PLR, it sort of focuses on the life of souls when they are not on earth, as in their life as spirits.

There is this entire symmetry between what his patients say about where they go after they die, what does it look like, what does it feel like, who welcomes them as spirits, can they communicate with earthly people after death, who are their guides, what are they expected to do as spirits and so on.I have read many books of Past Life Regression till now, but this one sort of covers an entirely new side of the soul life and it’s interesting to read people's experiences.

I am still half way through and one thing that keeps coming back to my mind while reading this is, the journey of our souls is pretty much a superset of the journey we have on earth and somehow it seems that we still carry the emotions, the relationships, the feelings, the goods with us life after life...so if some relationships aren’t working or that spontaneous connect isn't there or that bonding isn't there where you feel this love from deep down inside, it could mean that relationship is only build here but is not one that your soul has from above.

After reading this material, one thing that I am becoming more and more sure of is that there isn't any heaven or hell...whatever is there, its here. We go through difficult lifetimes because we have lessons to learn that only suffering can teach us and earth is our school...its here we get rewarded and its here we get punished too...the purpose of god or the high above entity isn't to punish us, but for us to learn the lesson well.

afterlife...do I believe in having crossed this journey many times before?

recently I have been reading a lot of stuff which again and again refers to the word "soul". I have been reading material right from blogs to published books on the matter and I must admit, being a Hindu and being Indains, we hear this stuff right from our school days, but I had never paid a lot of attention to actually think beyond what was told to me.

in hindi, the soul is called "aatma" and somewhere this concept of soul has been around in our religion and mythology for a while now but somehow I got drwn to this concept when i read the book called "Many Lives, Many Masters", by Dr.Brian Weiss. Its quite a read I must say and after reading it, did I realise that there is so much in the world that we don't know or just take for granted.

Now, let me explain what I understood and have started believing after reading loads of material and having discussions with people who sort of believe in afterlife. Every living person does have two parts to him, one is the physical being or the body and one is the spiritual being called the soul. The soul is eternal, it keeps on living...it cannot die or cannot be harmed. The physical being is what changes. The soul takes birth what is called "incarnation" and re-incarnation on the earth, to grow wiser. That is the purpose of our endless lives...to grow wiser at the spiritual level and to learn the lesson of unconditional love.

Important things I have learnt and have started believeing because they sort of make sense to me. The soul does not have anything negative attached to it. It is a spiritual being and only knows love. When it comes to the earth, it slowly picks up all the negativity from the surroundings, but only in the physical form.

The most important and profound statement I read in one of Dr.Brian's book, which I thought was life altering was that the soul carries the love, emotions and relationships it builds to the next life while it cannot carry any material assets. People spend their entire lifetimes in earning money and ignoring their relationships, where those are the relationships which will get carried forward with them in their next life while all the money will stay here. Furthermore, if you ignore the relationships or hurt people in this life, you will create debts or you will have lessons to learn which will come back to you either in this life or in the next lives...so you are actually doing more harm than good to yourself and those around you.

There is life on many planes of consciousness. This, our world is only one such plane. It is a like a graduating school for the soul. There maybe many other schools that we are unaware of, but the soul everywhere is the same. We have to learn our lessons and the soul keeps coming back to the school, untill all lessons are learned. We re-incarnate as male, female, rich and poor...are born into many religions etc because we have to learn from all sides.

Now you may wonder, why am I preaching. There hasn't been enough argument I have given to support my beliefs. Well, I will keep quoting various experiences from people mentioned in many places and soon through my own experinece also, that will show you why I think this is all true. For the time being, i just want to say...yes, I beleive in souls and I believe in Re-incarnation and I believe I have been to this earth many times before. It does happen to everyone I guess that sometimes when you are doing something, going somewhere or meeting someone, you get this very strong feeling that you have been here before...you know this person...well, your feeling might have an answer in your past lives :)